What does that phrase "Attached but Available" represents?
Somehow, this statement, is a very common sight in this world now....
Especially players, even though they are attached, they open themselves to others and still accepting more "offers"... When one that seems better than their current partner, they will switch to the better one...
But not only players, for a normal person, they also have this mindset... Is just that, they didn't explicitly say it out... This kind of people are more scary... They don't want anyone to think that they are not serious about relationship... Hence, they "secretly" look out for better partner and do their selection...
This leads to another statement of "having a lifebuoy is better than having nothing..."
Why would some people choose to be attached even though they feels that they are still eligible to look out for a better partner? That is becuz, before they can find someone better, they still have a spare one with them... In the end, if they couldn't find or even being accepted by "better one", they still have a spare one which is still beside them...
Someone said, "although i'm attached, but, I still haven't sign anything... So, why am I not eligible to look out for better one?"
After listening to this, makes me feels that, relationship is just a very vulnerable thing... It's as if wrap with rice paper... Once poke with a wet finger, or even put in a humid environment, it will damage... This sentence also let me felt more firm on my thoughts that, even marriage don't mean anything nor does it give u a sense of security...
Even if you signed on a Marriage Certificate, you can also sign on a Divorce Certificate...
It is difficult find the right person for you to spend the rest of your life...
Even if at this moment, you feels that, "YAP.. HE/SHE IS THE ONE!"... That might just be a false alarm...
You won't know how he/she is thinking and does he/she has the mentality that, he/she is attached to you, but still available to others....
Personally, I felt that, we should be careful towards people, even they are your partners....
They are the most prominent person to hurt you deep down into your heart, especially when you are unaware of.... You might think that he/she is the right one for now, but he/she might not think the same way (even he/she said so... Might just be lying.... Who knows?!).....
This had make this world lack of "TRUE LOVE"....
With all the awareness and guard, who will actually dare to open up their heart and truely love another person???
What had we all done to ourselves???
Do we really need to hurt so many people in order to find our "real" partners??
Or are we just looking for a "perfect partner" instead of the one we love most???
For those who are attached but have the mentality that they are still available, just be aware that, you might end up having nothing....
Somehow, this statement, is a very common sight in this world now....
Especially players, even though they are attached, they open themselves to others and still accepting more "offers"... When one that seems better than their current partner, they will switch to the better one...
But not only players, for a normal person, they also have this mindset... Is just that, they didn't explicitly say it out... This kind of people are more scary... They don't want anyone to think that they are not serious about relationship... Hence, they "secretly" look out for better partner and do their selection...
This leads to another statement of "having a lifebuoy is better than having nothing..."
Why would some people choose to be attached even though they feels that they are still eligible to look out for a better partner? That is becuz, before they can find someone better, they still have a spare one with them... In the end, if they couldn't find or even being accepted by "better one", they still have a spare one which is still beside them...
Someone said, "although i'm attached, but, I still haven't sign anything... So, why am I not eligible to look out for better one?"
After listening to this, makes me feels that, relationship is just a very vulnerable thing... It's as if wrap with rice paper... Once poke with a wet finger, or even put in a humid environment, it will damage... This sentence also let me felt more firm on my thoughts that, even marriage don't mean anything nor does it give u a sense of security...
Even if you signed on a Marriage Certificate, you can also sign on a Divorce Certificate...
It is difficult find the right person for you to spend the rest of your life...
Even if at this moment, you feels that, "YAP.. HE/SHE IS THE ONE!"... That might just be a false alarm...
You won't know how he/she is thinking and does he/she has the mentality that, he/she is attached to you, but still available to others....
Personally, I felt that, we should be careful towards people, even they are your partners....
They are the most prominent person to hurt you deep down into your heart, especially when you are unaware of.... You might think that he/she is the right one for now, but he/she might not think the same way (even he/she said so... Might just be lying.... Who knows?!).....
This had make this world lack of "TRUE LOVE"....
With all the awareness and guard, who will actually dare to open up their heart and truely love another person???
What had we all done to ourselves???
Do we really need to hurt so many people in order to find our "real" partners??
Or are we just looking for a "perfect partner" instead of the one we love most???
For those who are attached but have the mentality that they are still available, just be aware that, you might end up having nothing....
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